Do you like or not to know if the boys are dating?

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I don't know if this is allowed here but like we are all fans here would be nice to know the opinions about this.

Do you like or not to know if the boys are dating?

I'm asking this because I read somewhere that some fans from Japan don't like to know and threaten to commit suicide... In JE cases they send letters and threaten in many ways... So that's one of reasons the boys don't say if they are or not.

That's completely nonsense! I don't mind, it's so natural! I want they to be happy! More happy more they brings wonderful moments for us! ......... What kind of fan is that?....... @_@

sadangel88 edit:
Please be reminded this is only your own opinion about the question.
Do not bring up any rumor about the boys.
If not if you get ban, do not blame me yea? whistle

Tora33 · PIKA☆NCHI Joined: 23 Sep 2006 Posts: 73

That seems a bit selfish. For me I'd like to know if they get MARRIED or something like that and wish them all the best but . . . yeah I think I'm happier not knowing. Although sometimes the boys slip themselves, but they are so adorable I forgive them.

I'd post an example but that may be toeing the line a bit too far with the mods so I'll leave it at they've slipped up before

Sunako · Posted: Mon Aug 13, 2007 10:38 pm Post subject:

I would like to know if they are w/ someone, because I would like them to find their happiness & hopefully get married. It's tough for anyone to find someone special, & a lot tougher when you're a celebrity. That's why I don't mind them dating someone.

vimszdatthai · PIKA☆NCHI Joined: 27 Apr 2007 Posts: 125 Location: NYC

Hm.. I wouldnt mind knowing them dating or whatever. It's no big deal. People date all the time, its LIFE! The boys are just human beings you know. They also like / love people. Just because their idols, doesn't mean they can't date. I hate that sometimes, people are so protective of them, but they dont even know them. I dont even know if im making sense, but all im saying is. People should just let them be. Just let them be happy. But haha, me too I probably wouldnt want to know. But maybe I would. I probably would want to know, but would be kind of sad. But happy that their happy. Im weird. o_O

mav' · Posted: Tue Aug 14, 2007 12:58 am Post subject:

Well, knowing or not, I don't really care... but I do hope they're dating, because they are cute and seems nice (well, in real life we can't be sure XD) so I hope they have good time with girls or boys wink

luna_sea8 · Posted: Tue Aug 14, 2007 1:42 am Post subject:

Tora33 wrote:

That seems a bit selfish. For me I'd like to know if they get MARRIED or something like that and wish them all the best but . . . yeah I think I'm happier not knowing. Although sometimes the boys slip themselves, but they are so adorable I forgive them.

I'd post an example but that may be toeing the line a bit too far with the mods so I'll leave it at they've slipped up before

I agree, I would also want to know if they get married or not, and hope that they will have a happy marriage. But when it comes to dating, I think for me it's better if I don't know also. I don't know it's just me, but I hope the boys are happy and content with whatever they go through.

yuubi · Posted: Tue Aug 14, 2007 4:08 am Post subject:

Oh well...I'm the opposite. I'd prefer not to know unsure

But I think its going to be inevitable, ne? But if i can have my way, i hope i don't know a thing about them dating cuz it would be heartbreaking. Don't get me wrong, i'm not the kind too who would really hate the girl they're dating and not like the guys anymore. Its just that i want to like them the way they are when i first know them... that is...unattached. That way i think I'm sparing myself of heartbreak so if i really can, i hope i don't hear any news of that sort about the boys. But in any case I still hear news like that, I'll just be part sad and part happy not really angry or mad.

indayze · Posted: Tue Aug 14, 2007 5:06 am Post subject:

yuubi wrote:

Oh well...I'm the opposite. I'd prefer not to know unsure

But I think its going to be inevitable, ne? But if i can have my way, i hope i don't know a thing about them dating cuz it would be heartbreaking. Don't get me wrong, i'm not the kind too who would really hate the girl they're dating and not like the guys anymore. Its just that i want to like them the way they are when i first know them... that is...unattached. That way i think I'm sparing myself of heartbreak so if i really can, i hope i don't hear any news of that sort about the boys. But in any case I still hear news like that, I'll just be part sad and part happy not really angry or mad.

I agree with you 100% - I'd prefer not to know. It makes me appreciate the Aibakaland forum rules even more XD

yuubi · Posted: Tue Aug 14, 2007 5:10 am Post subject:

indayze wrote:

It makes me appreciate the Aibakaland forum rules even more XD

hahaha... me too! i know what you're saying XD

tinkchick555 · Posted: Tue Aug 14, 2007 5:56 am Post subject:

I guess I don't mind either way. Usually it's better not to know because then you don't have to hear about all the scandals or the she's not good enough for hims and all that.

And I probably would be upset because I mean, it would be a little heartbreaking, but it's not the end of the world if I find out.

So I guess I'm leaning towards the don't want to know section too. Thank goodness for not being able to know! Gotta love forum rules!! Speaking of forum rules this isnt' against them right?

sadangel88 · Posted: Tue Aug 14, 2007 6:55 am Post subject:

For me i prefer not to know, even though i don't really mind they are in a relationship with someone else etc.

I mean arashi is also human. All human have feelings so it is alright that they are in a relationship or kinna things. Even though they are idol, they do entitled for their own life.

-random-
Even though it might be heartbreaking IF i heard any news like this about them, but i will still bless them all the best yea!! blush

indayze · Posted: Tue Aug 14, 2007 7:07 am Post subject:

tinkchick555 wrote:

Speaking of forum rules this isnt' against them right?

I don't think so - we're not talking ABOUT their private lives. It's more like.. our opinion if we want to know about it. Just as long as no one goes off into actually DISCUSSING what they've read etc. etc. then I think we're good :)

elenniel · PIKA☆NCHI Joined: 22 Jul 2007 Posts: 129

Mm... I'd prefer to know. XD (Natural curiosity...) But I wouldn't mind if I didn't know either. Guess it works either way for me. =P

I think it's natural if they have their own relationships - they can't be living in an Arashi-shaped box their entire lives (that'd make them like robots or something, and that would be sad).

I do appreciate aibakaland's rules, though. I think it does help a little towards keeping their privacy, and it certainly demonstrates that we fans do know how to give Arashi some leeway. hehe

Arashi4Dream · Posted: Tue Aug 14, 2007 9:29 am Post subject:

I prefer to don't know if they currently have relationship,it's natural they have girlfriends but as a fan I would be more happy if I don't know...
If they get married I would accept it and be happy for them

sakurai_sake · Posted: Tue Aug 14, 2007 2:25 pm Post subject:

finnally we've come 2 this topic!maybe coz there's a lot of rumor lately, and we know what wink

i would prefer 2 know if any1 of the boyz is dating some1, wheter is a girl or (hopely not) a boy..just want 2 share the happiness, coz i think it's about time they think about their future in normal relationship ( cry

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