Do you like or not to know if the boys are dating?

merash · Posted: Wed Apr 02, 2008 2:49 am Post subject:

i know that it is normal for guys or girl to date...
it fully understandable...
but maybe because i am a fan i dont want to know who they dating or who they going out with...
but if i know, one thing for sure i really envy that girl but at the same time
i really wish them to be happy...
i cant help the envy part... it's natural...

but i wont send them letter or commit suicide..
that is actually a bit stupid stuff to do...

marab · PIKA☆NCHI Joined: 02 Feb 2008 Posts: 86

I wouldn't mind either way, not knowing or knowing.

By the way, isn't it almost surreal that we have this post? I can't think of a way to explain it, its kind of funny, ya know, how severe or intense our feelings would be about knowing something as mundane as who someone is dating. I mean, if you see a cute guy around some place often, you find out he's dating someone and your reaction is like "oh, too bad" sort of thing, but it stops there. I think our reactions are strong because we feel like we invest so much of ourselves into our fandom. Just thought it was interesting big grin

shrimp_chips · Johnny's Jr Joined: 19 Mar 2008 Posts: 29

i would want to know.
realistically, its not like i would ever be the one to date them so i'd rather see them happy with another girl. it would be so cute to hear about what he does to make her happy

melonz · Posted: Thu Apr 03, 2008 7:02 pm Post subject:

Mmm.. I don't mind really but if they do, at least i can confirm that they are not gay. big grin

. I certainly be happy for them

BananaBabeQT · Posted: Thu Apr 03, 2008 7:27 pm Post subject:

Hmm I agree with a lot of people that I would like to know just for the sake of knowing they are hopefully happy! ^_^ Everyone deserves to have a special someone in their life ^_^

yabai x · Posted: Sat Apr 05, 2008 2:24 am Post subject:

Edited:

Guh. I have a habit of not answering the question and talk about something off topic instead XDD

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So, yes. I would love to know if they're dating :]

Of course I'd be ticked for about 3 seconds because yes, there is a tiny and selfish part of me that is very possessive when it comes to Arashi, but hey. It's not like I'm going to marry them, or much less get to meet them.

Sorry, I'm in a very pessimistic mood right now whistle

But anyways. They're human, and they deserve to have someone special in their life and if they're happy, I'm happier big grin

dirujjj · Posted: Sat Apr 05, 2008 3:20 am Post subject:

hmm...I would want to know ^^
I'd like to know who that special someone is in their lives =)

lovely_nino · Posted: Sat Apr 05, 2008 7:49 am Post subject:

its alright if they're dating with someone..
if they happy i'm also happy too...
maybe for a while..i will be sad but its okay..
as long they have a nice girl^^

wensan90 · PIKA☆NCHI Joined: 03 Mar 2008 Posts: 93

Personally, for me, I wouldn't mind. I can see how some fan would mind though, especially the younger ones~

BUT if they were dating someone, would that mean there will be less Ohmiya, Sakuraiba, Juntoshi, or {insert pairing} going on?!!? I would be sad if that happened.. blush

I think Johnny has power over who they date. If they do date, the person they are dating has to be "approved." If I'm not mistaken. confused

kuroihikari · Posted: Sat Apr 05, 2008 6:22 pm Post subject:

i guess i would like to know about their marriage for sure... but dating... hmmm.. im not v sure.. i get v upset when they r linked with female celebrities dat i don like haha... but as well as they r happy rite! hehe

Chosoo · Posted: Sat Apr 05, 2008 7:00 pm Post subject:

I don't care.. I mean it isn't like I date them or something, so I'd be happy for them.. they deserve to be in love and happy.
However.. I'd get tired if journos and people who would write too much about their "girlfriends/dates". I mean I love them because of their singing and stuff.. so to read about their lovelife isn't really my kind of choice..

When the day comes when they decied to get married.. that's the day I'd like to read about their lovelifes wink

miya · Posted: Sun Apr 06, 2008 7:02 am Post subject:

wensan90 wrote:

BUT if they were dating someone, would that mean there will be less Ohmiya, Sakuraiba, Juntoshi, or {insert pairing} going on?!!? I would be sad if that happened.. blush

I don't think so. The theory is if they are happy they'll show more rabu rabu to us! Remember: people in love are happy people. ¦D~

venus02 · PIKA☆NCHI Joined: 06 Jan 2008 Posts: 102

Even though a part of me wants to say "no way in hell would I want either of them to start dating!!" but who am I to say that? As long as they're happy then I'm fine with whoever they date. Just not now, maybe in the future (looooong future)

Serality · Posted: Sun Apr 06, 2008 2:10 pm Post subject:

uh.. I don't really think I want to know if they're dating and who they're dating. It's their private life and so. And my fan-heart would be a little sad I think. It's not that I wouldn't grant them a person that they love and all, but I don't wan't to know it either.
I wan't to live in my lovely imaginary world where they love each other the most XD *kidding*

anzagirly · PIKA☆NCHI Joined: 17 Mar 2008 Posts: 76 Location: Canada

well really, i'm a curious person so i'd like to know (because they always seem to be alone, and they're in their 20s so it should be about time they hooked up)

but honestly, i wouldn't want my life broad casted to the world, especially my love life, so it's their own business

but it would be nice to hear about a wedding or something, because that would be so awsome for them!